
Vesak@Orchard Sun 11th may In front of Ngee Ann City
Attended a dharma talk 1st thing in the morning before I started to tend NUSBS booth. *Nice!*
Topic: How to identify Buddhist youth?
Actually the main the venerable was trying to bring across to the audience was very simple.
Buddhist youth is no different from normal youth.
We still study, play, shop, blog, msn, sms etc... Whatever that youth does=)
Buddhist youth only stands out when there's a crisis.
When we are met with obstacles and our enemies, we can overcome them better.
In Buddhism context, our enemies can be categorized into 3 main types, namely greed, anger and delusion.
We deal with greed by not giving in to our unnecessary desires, we are contented with what we have.
We deal with anger by recognizing them, not getting attached to the feeling and letting it go. Being angry with someone else's faults is equivalent to torturing ourselves with other's wrongdoings. Totally not worth it and unfruitful.
We are thus not controlled by the factors that make us angry, but we are in control of how we deal with them. To me, the main aim should be to focus on the things we can control and deal with them to solve the problem. Getting emotional will not get us anywhere right?
We deal with delusion with understanding. By having a full understanding of the matter we are dealing with, we can then make better decisions without misconceptions, biasness and ignorance.
The venerable gave a very good example to explain the misconception regarding whether Buddhist should aim to achieve goals. Some may argue that if we can overcome greed and delusion, then Buddhists should not aim for anything. Doesnt that lead to desires?
She explained that it is not wrong to have desires IF we have a full understanding of what we are striving for. And most importantly, if what we are aiming for will only results in good and no harm, then we should strive for it.
Hence, she described a Buddhist youth as a Superman.
In normal circumstances, Superman is just an ordinary guy working as a reporter. However, whenever there's crisis, he will transform into Superman to solve it. That makes the difference between ordinary people and him.
Similarly, a Buddhist youth is leading an ordinary life just like our peers. But when faced with challenges and obstacles, we are less likely to succumb to them.
Initially, I thought the venerable was attempting to use Superman to encourage more youths to become Buddhist.
However, at the end of it, she just wanted to let us understand that being a Buddhist doesnt mean that we can no longer enjoy what other youths are enjoying. As simple as that. I think it is really true. Guess that may be why not many Buddhist youths are actively involved in Buddhism related activities.
On the other hand, I am also happy to know from other highly active Buddhist youths that there have been an increasing number of youth participation. *Im one of them! Still learning...*
Hope more youths can learn more about Buddhism instead of merely being a Buddhist by name. There are many organizations with lots of interesting talks, sessions and camps for youths!
*NUS Buddhist Society is also a wonderful place to learn about it!* =)

On a side note....
The Buddha statue is there not because his "spirit" is there. It is there so as to remind us of his teachings and for us to carried out puja.
Puja is simply an act to show respect to the Buddha and his teachings (Dharma). When we do puja, the simplest form is to be on our knees, palms together and give 3 bows. This is to acknowledge our smallness and humility. Simply to be humble and hence showing willingness to learn.
Hence, seeing the Buddha's statue to me is a form of reminder that I should continue to learn the teachings of the Buddha and to see the Buddha as my role model. =)